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Consultant and Dentist Duo; Practice Problems Season 4 Episode 42

20 minutes – that is all it is going to take to listen to this week’s essential episode. Listen as Bethany quickly unpacks eight foundational resources that every practice needs. She focuses on two different “buckets” of advice – first, she selects her top four (gasp, only four!?!?) favorite books for practice leaders and teams. Then, she tells listeners the MUST-HAVE professionals to ensure that you are fully supported in your practice and team. At the end of this short episode, you are going to be equipped with foundational resources that will positively impact you and your team, so listen up!

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Are you looking for a podcast where you
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can hear from real people regarding
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their real dental drama? If so, then
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you've come to the right place. Join
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hosts Bethany Penny and Dr. Reena Kuba
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as we dive into the solutions we've
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created and the mistakes we've made
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while managing dental drama.
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Let's get started. Happy Monday
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everybody. It is just me today and I am
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about to spend the next 15 minutes
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dropping so many resources on you. So
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get ready. Y'all are all about to be on
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hopefully a little break for July 4th.
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So it's going to be the perfect time to
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get going on some really important
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things for your practice and for your
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team. So this episode is all about
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resources.
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resources that I myself have used in my
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consulting business,
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things I've used in my communication
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with others, um things I've used to get
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my mind in the right place for work and
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for what I do. but also this is an
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episode with specific resources that you
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need to put in place to really build out
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a successful support system for you.
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Being a part of practice, leading a
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practice, owning a practice, in order to
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be at your best, you've really got to
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surround yourself with fantastic
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resources. So I'm going to kind of focus
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on two domains today. First of all, I'm
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going to give you some simple first
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steps. To me, these are books that have
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been very influential in not only my
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business, but also as I've consulted
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with practices. I've really leaned on
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the knowledge that I've gained from
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these books. I think these books can be
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impactful for any person on the team.
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Whether you're an RDA, a an assistant,
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an ortho assistant, or a hygienist or
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business team member, it doesn't matter.
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You you can benefit from these books.
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You know, I think we are it's becoming a
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dying art to read books. You know, we're
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more apt to watch a video or kind of
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scroll through Tik Tok and find some
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little tidbits. So, we're becoming more
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of a cliffnote society. And I just
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really think we've got so much knowledge
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in the books around us that we really
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can't deny the helpfulness of these
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books. Doesn't mean that you have to
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actually purchase a physical copy. It
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could mean that you're downloading this
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on your Audible app or whatever you use
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to listen to books. But I want to talk
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through four very influential books that
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I think everybody needs to read. And it
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was so hard for me to narrow it down to
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four, but these are the four that made
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the top of my list. And if you were
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sitting here looking at my bookshelves
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full of books, you would realize that
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four is miraculous that I was able to
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just pick four. So, I want to go through
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these with you. The first one, and these
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are in no particular order, by the way,
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because they're all phenomenal. This is
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like my A+++ list, and then I've just
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got an A++ list. But it these are really
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really good. So one that I have
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recommended to a lot of people and a lot
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of people don't take me up on this. I
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get it. I totally get it. But I talk
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about this man all the time. Studied him
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way back in the day in my bachelor's
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degree and then more in my master's
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programs. He is pivotal to persuasion
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and influence. He's some people call him
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the godfather of influence. And so the
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book, his original book is called The
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Psychology of Persuasion by Robert
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Chaldini.
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Within this book, I'm sitting here
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holding my copy, which is ancient. Like
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I've got the yellowed pages and I've got
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my little notes all the way throughout.
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Um, it is such a pivotal book for
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understanding the human brain and how it
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works and how it functions. So let's say
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that you're a manager and you're like,
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how do I get this team to follow my
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lead? I am trying to motivate them. I'm
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trying to ask them very clearly, you
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know, what to do and how to do it, but
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they just will not follow me. You need
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this book. You need to understand what
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it is that actually influences people to
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move forward in the right direction. If
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you are a practice owner, you've got to
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have a team that follows your lead. And
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while this isn't going to go into
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particular styles of leadership, this is
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going to give you foundational
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information on what motivates people and
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how people think without even it's not
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conscious thought, it's subconscious
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reactiveness. And so the psychology of
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persuasion is exceedingly important from
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a team standpoint. But but some of my
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favorite applications of this book are
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actually persuading patients to take
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care of themsel, right? Treatment
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acceptance, even scheduling their next
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hygiene appointment. We want that so
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badly for our patients because we know
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that's what's best for them and we want
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what's best for them. uh but we we are
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using all the wrong techniques to
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motivate them to schedule their next
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treatment or to schedule their recall
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appointment. So this book, The
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Psychology of Persuasion, is
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foundational in our patient care and our
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communication with our patients.
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I I just can't say enough about this. If
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you only pick one of the four books,
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what I would which I would be really
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upset if you only picked one, but this
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one is foundational and it is thick. It
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is weighty. It is not a light and easy
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read, but please trust me on this.
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You're going to want to pick up this
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book and read it. There's been lots of
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spin-offs from this that you could just
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spend the next two years in the
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psychology of persuasion and learn so
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much. So, that's the first book that I
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would highly recommend.
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The second book is called Unreasonable
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Hospitality by Will Gada. It is one that
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I read actually pretty recently. I
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didn't I have the book right here in
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front of me, but I do not have any notes
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made in the margins of this book because
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I actually listened to this one on
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Audible. It was exceedingly enjoyable to
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listen to on Audible. It it read more
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like a story than it did an actual like
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self-help book. So, it is completely out
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of the dental field. There's nothing
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related to dental, just like there's not
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in the former book that I was just
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talking about, but
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it is fascinating. It is a fascinating
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book on how one general manager
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took this restaurant in New York and
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just
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really homeed in on the value of
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hospitality and just broke the mold of
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what hospitality looks like. to hear how
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creative they got with creating these
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experiences for their customers.
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It was humbling because I thought this
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is what a man who's in the restaurant
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industry is doing. And while food is
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important, food is nothing compared to
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your dental care, your physical health.
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And yet we don't put near as much
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thought into our patient experiences as
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this m man does for his
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customers that um visit his restaurant.
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So I would recommend this book. Again,
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any team member could benefit from this.
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Allow it to humble you. I I felt
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exceedingly humbled by this book. And
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then also allow it to inspire you. What
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are creative little things that you
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could try even in your practice? Or
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maybe it's not exactly what they did in
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their restaurant, but it spurs an idea
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for how you can take hospitality to the
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next level. Hospitality
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in most cases is free. Is 100% free.
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Now, you'll hear in this book that he it
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is not free. They spent a lot of time
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and money on hospitality. But in our
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practices, in our dental practices,
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hospitality can be free. And so I want
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to challenge you and your team to just
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break off the molds of what we've always
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considered hospitality to be and to
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really dig deep on this concept. So
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unreasonable
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hospitality by Will Gdara. Highly
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recommend that book. The next one that I
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have here is called, it's a historical
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one. I've had it on my shelf for many,
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many, many years. Um, I was just
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flipping through to see if I could find
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the copyright date. It has been around
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for a while, but the concepts in it are
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timeless. And it is called Word of Mouth
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Marketing by Andy Siron Sironovitz, and
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it is
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just
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so simple, so simple and yet so
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impactful for a practice. So it looked
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like this was originally published in
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2006
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and the concepts absolutely are still
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relevant almost 20 years later. It talks
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about the importance of identifying
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people in your practice that are not
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just good at talking about you but are
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happy to talk about you. They become
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pivotal patients for growing your
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patient base, for letting the community
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know about you. So he talks about how to
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identify these VIPs, how to cater to
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them, and how to really blow their socks
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off in such a way that they are
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outspreading the word about your
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practice. So again, there's nothing
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earthshattering in this book, but it is
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something that should change us after
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reading it because we think about that
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those referrals and that word of mouth
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marketing in a very different way. You
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know, often times we can get discouraged
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in the process of asking for referrals.
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We're like, it's not working. Nobody's
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talking about us. Nobody ever sends
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their friends and their family. And my
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question always is, how intentional are
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we being with getting those people
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talking about us? And so this book
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unpacks lots of different ways that you
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can really unpack that whole referral
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chain. So Word of Mouth Marketing by
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Andy Cernonovitz.
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Then my last one is The One Minute
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Manager by Kim Blanchard. The one minute
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manager. I was scouring my bookshelves
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trying to find my copy. My guess is that
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I have loaned it out to somebody and I
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as I was preparing for this episode, I
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was like, "Oh no, I've got to get my one
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minute manager back." Um because it is
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the shortest little read. It's short and
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easy. You could read it in probably 90
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minutes. It's super short, but so
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helpful. This is going to be a very
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helpful book for, of course, practice
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owners, managers, team leads, people
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that are trying to grow into leadership.
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The concepts represented in the one
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minute manager book are foundational.
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In fact, if you're a parent, you could
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totally utilize the concepts in this
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book. And so, it talks about how to
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effectively manage people without it
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consuming your world. And this is the
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problem that I see with practice owners,
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with managers, team leads, is that they
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have so much on their plate that they're
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drowning. And the management of it all,
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the management of the people, the
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management of the problems becomes
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unbearable. And this book talks about
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how to slowly change the tide of people
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needing you to solve all of their
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problems. It teaches you how to kind of
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punt the responsibility back to your
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team members so that they themselves
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become self-managing in a way. So again,
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it's a very quick read. It is absolutely
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worth the 90 minutes that you would put
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into reading it. And I think the
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concepts are very easily translatable to
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a dental office. So those are four
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books. Oh, I'm sitting here looking at
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my shelves just wishing that I could
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tell you about so many more, but this is
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a really great place to start. Maybe
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you'll get through all four of them over
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the Fourth of July weekend. Although,
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uh, if that's the case, you probably
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won't make it through the Psychology of
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Persuasion. Uh, but maybe you're driving
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somewhere, you can download Unreasonable
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Hospitality. Definitely listen to it.
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And then, um, the other two are
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relatively easy reads. One minute
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manager super short. Word of mouth
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marketing is I'm pulling it open here.
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It is
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90 pages. So it's relatively short as
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well. And I would just challenge you to
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get going on these. So those are my book
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resources. Now I want to kind of shift
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buckets and I want to talk about the
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team of people that you need to surround
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yourself with to have a successful
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practice. So, anytime I'm working with a
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startup practice, I've been so lucky to
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be able to help business owners,
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dentists kick their their practice off.
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And it's just such a fun process. So, to
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me, these are pivotal people that I'm
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telling my startups to get acclimated
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with, but I'm also telling my regular
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clients that have been in business to
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get acclimated with these people. The
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very first one is a dental CPA.
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I cannot tell you how critical it is for
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you to have not only a CPA, but I would
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highly recommend a dental CPA. What I
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see as the distinction between a CPA and
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a dental CPA. Now, when I say dental
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CPA, that may not mean that they only
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work with dentists. There are plenty of
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firms out there that only work with
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dentists. They're they're easy to find.
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Um, but I recommend somebody who has a
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large pool of dentists because they
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become an advisor to you. You are able
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to get trends from them and what's going
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on in the industry. They know specific
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challenges that dentists face, not just
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business owners. So, a CPA works fine,
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but you're missing out on that advisory
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piece. just your dental CPA knowing what
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the um typical overhead is, what each of
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the categories should be as far as how
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much should my dental supplies be of my
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total overhead, what about payroll, what
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should that be? If they're looking
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across multiple industries, they can't
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really communicate with the confidence
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that you need to give you the correct
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information. So, a dental CPA has all
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this data at his or her fingertips and
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they can tell you very specifically what
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those things should be for dental
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practices. Not to mention, they
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understand the concepts of having to
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update technology, having to add new
16:02
equipment. They can figure out from tax
16:05
tax standpoint when and how to add those
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things. So, they are absolutely
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essential to starting a practice. I just
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cannot advise that enough. So, you need
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to have a dental CPA. If you're doing
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your own bookkeeping, accounting, all of
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that. I do understand that that's a
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cost-saving things for you, and I I
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understand if you have to do that for a
16:32
period of time, but as soon as you can,
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you need to get a dental CPA. It's worth
16:37
the investment. So, that's professional
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number one.
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Professional number two is going to be a
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lawyer. And I hate to even say that, but
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you need to have access to somebody that
16:51
can be a resource for you when tricky
16:55
things come up. So, for example, a div,
16:59
let's say you've got a a child patient
17:01
in your practice. Let's say you're pedo.
17:03
You've got a child patient in your
17:04
practice and you've got a set of
17:05
divorced parents. each of them claiming
17:08
a certain
17:10
uh responsibility or a certain privilege
17:13
that they have with their child. And now
17:16
you're in the seat to navigate what your
17:20
role is as a medical dental provider
17:23
towards this child. You're getting
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divorce papers and updated divorce
17:28
papers and you're trying to navigate
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this. you it would benefit you greatly
17:34
to have a lawyer that you can reach out
17:36
to and yes it's going to cost something
17:38
but the advice that you can get from
17:40
that lawyer there are dental specific
17:43
lawyers which are even better so I would
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highly recommend that you have one of
17:47
those on file it doesn't mean that
17:48
you're chronically paying this lawyer it
17:51
just means that you have an established
17:53
relationship with them and you know who
17:55
to contact when something icky comes up.
17:58
So that would be number two.
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Number three is you need somebody, it
18:06
can be somebody on your team, but it can
18:09
also be a company that is supporting you
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in marketing efforts.
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If it is somebody on your team, then you
18:17
need you are responsible as the practice
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owner or as the manager. You are
18:21
responsible for having monthly meetings
18:24
with this person. And y'all are checking
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your online rankings. You're checking
18:28
your Google ads. You're checking your
18:30
social media interactions. You're
18:33
developing your marketing plans
18:35
together. So, you would need to be
18:37
handinhand if that person is on your
18:39
team. If you are outsourcing that to a
18:42
marketing firm, then they naturally are
18:46
keeping you accountable. So, they are
18:48
scheduling monthly phone calls,
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sometimes every other month. They are
18:52
sending you reports on how your
18:54
website's doing. But you need to make
18:57
sure that you're constantly on top of
19:00
marketing. Even if you're in a mature
19:02
practice that is just trying to
19:05
maintain, that's always going to take a
19:07
level of marketing that I think requires
19:10
either somebody dedicated to that on
19:12
your team or a professional company. So
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that would be the third one.
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There's a lot more that I'm wish I could
19:20
say here, but I'm going to keep it to
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four as well. That was my goal. four
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books, four professional resources.
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The fourth one is some type of
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emotional mental support. Okay, so I any
19:37
client of mine knows that I highly
19:39
recommend a counselor or psychiatrist or
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psychologist that you're seeing on a
19:45
regular basis.
19:47
Even if you feel perfectly healthy and
19:50
emotionally in control, I just think
19:52
it's helpful to be able to divulge a lot
19:55
of thoughts and feelings every so often.
19:58
So, it could be that you're only seeing
19:59
that person every other month um or
20:02
three times a year, but something is
20:04
better than nothing. If it's not an
20:08
counselor or psychologist or something
20:10
like that, then I would say make sure
20:13
that you have developed a support group,
20:17
so to speak. So maybe that's several of
20:20
your dental buddies that get together on
20:23
a regular basis and just talk shop.
20:27
You're talking about the business.
20:29
You're talking about trends that they're
20:30
seeing. You're talking about challenges
20:31
that they face, challenges that you're
20:33
facing. So, it's almost like your own
20:35
little support group. But
20:38
I do not think that social media is a
20:41
substitute for that. So, if you're on
20:44
multiple social media groups for dental
20:47
dentistry, I just don't think that
20:49
that's a good enough supplement. I think
20:51
you need inperson facetime with other
20:54
people. And I think it needs to be the
20:57
same people on a regular basis. So,
21:00
let's say you've got a local chapter of
21:02
a study club that you go to, you know,
21:04
every other month.
21:06
You may feel great being able to see
21:09
people learn something when you get
21:11
together, but if it's different people
21:13
every time, then you're not going to
21:15
feel the freedom to be vulnerable with
21:18
those people. So, to me, it's better if
21:20
you have a subset out of that study club
21:24
that meet together on a regular basis.
21:27
If you're going more of the support
21:29
group route, I would recommend monthly
21:32
because there's just a lot that can come
21:34
up in any given month that it's helpful
21:36
to dialogue with other people about
21:39
what's happening.
21:41
So support, mental, emotional support
21:45
either in the way of a counselor,
21:46
psychiatrist, or in the way of a support
21:49
group. I think all four of those are
21:52
nonnegotiable.
21:54
I just cannot express to you enough the
21:57
importance of having having all four of
22:00
those on your team, so to speak. I know
22:02
they're behind the scenes. They're not
22:04
in your office necessarily, but they're
22:06
on your team. You've got a group of
22:08
people that you can access and resource
22:11
at any time
22:13
that that it just brings a peace of mind
22:16
that you just need to do it for
22:19
yourself. So, dental CPA, lawyer,
22:23
ideally a dental lawyer, a marketing
22:26
firm or a dedicated person on your team
22:29
for marketing, and then emotional
22:31
support, either in the way of counseling
22:33
or a support group. So, you've got four
22:35
books, you've got four professionals
22:38
that you need to have as your backbone.
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Use this upcoming holiday break.
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Hopefully, you get a three-day weekend
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with July 4th being on a Friday.
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Hopefully everybody's getting a 3-day
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weekend. Dig into these. Do yourself a
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favor. Invest in yourself. Invest in
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your practice. Invest in your team. And
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check out these four book resources. And
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if you don't have any of these four
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professional resources in place, start
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researching today and get these people
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on your team as soon as possible. All
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right. Happy 4th. Y'all be safe out
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there. Thanks for joining the
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conversation today. We hope that you are
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comforted in knowing that you are not
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alone, but we also hope that you're
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walking away with some really great tips
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and tricks to try in your practice.
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